A life's Celebration
Mavis Trought
A Journey's End
My mothers physical journey on this earth ended on the 30th July at approximately 1am in the morning. She was 99 years old an amazing feat by far and gracefully slipped from our grasp as she now mixes and mingles with those who have gone before us.During the month of August I stepped back from my usual routine to focus on what needed to be done - funeral arrangements, then dealing with the day, and what her no longer being physically with us meant for me and my sister.
Mum loved to draw
We have been reminiscing on the impact that she had on our lives growing up and how we move forward without all the routines and habits around her care that had been formed, and interacting with her on so many other ways from the expressions on her face, touch - holding hands to the words that she would share with us. The song 'Dancing Queen' by Abba along with 'One Love' - Bob Marley were two of her favorite songs and she loved to dance.
Always the opportunity to dance
We celebrated her life, and loves, with family and friends who had at one time or another interacted with her on so many different ways.
Many around the world have lost loved ones and continue to do so and I encourage you to think about the memories that you are able to form, continue to talk about your experiences and see where you can spend time with your elders and family members, who have so much wisdom and knowledge to pass on.
Mums memory and spirit lives in us and we will continue to celebrate the impact that she has had on our lives and that of her grandchildren and great grand children to come.
Your mum hat a long life and will always be with you n your thoughts. All the best, Amanda, Valerie
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Valerie-Jael
DeleteLovely post and dedication to your mother. You were wonderfully in tune with her as she journeyed along - my thoughts to you and your sister and the family ... this is a great post and I'm glad you've stepped away to process your loss and the impact she had on your life and many of those around her. With thoughts and all the best - Hilary
ReplyDeleteHilary, so good to hear from you, Thank you for your kind words, it has been good to take the time away.
Delete🌹Just lovely…thank you for sharing this with us.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much
DeleteYour mom is so so beautful! I can't help but feeling that she is such a strong woman who has overcame a lot in her 99 years and may she rest in peace away from the harsh reality of life these days. Pls take care of yourself; knowing that she is watching over you from above. Rosa
ReplyDeleteThank you Rosa, Appreciate your words.
DeleteLove from France, dear Amanda!
ReplyDeleteThank you
DeleteSorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteThank you :)
DeleteSo sorry for your loss, but she did live a very long life one we can only hope for 99 years! My prayers are with you dear Amanda. Take the time you need and reset.
ReplyDeleteIndeed, thanks Elaine
DeleteBig hugs to you and your sister xx
ReplyDeleteThank you so much
DeleteI lost my mum a year ago, also a Mavis. May your memories warm your heart as you travel on this journey of grieving.
ReplyDeleteGayle, sorry to hear about your Mum - special ladies our Mavis's, thank you for your encouragement
DeleteYou are the person you are because of your dear mother. She's holds a special honor. You know what else she holds? Your heart, where she will remain for eternity!
ReplyDeleteBlessings, my friend.
Su, many thanks, blessings!
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